Love helps.

They say that if you can't be with your own pain, there is no way you can be with the pain of others.

🌊 Waves of grief were high this weekend. Chagrined & high pitch talking upset on the phone, this guy stood right in front of me and gave me the longest and tightest hug to my waist I have ever received.

I often wonder ways in which loosing his brother will shape him. Isaiah intuitively knows that just being there helps. Presence helps. Touch helps. Prayers helps. Love helps.

s my very sage doula friend @pigeonposeemotions says: you can't fix shit all the time.
Love you, ZaZa 😍 #tommytinkerforever