Super Bitchy Stylish Tip #4
K, here’s the deal.
This weeks tip come all the way back round to the reason why I open this account in the first place: self- freakin’ love.
Your wardrobe is the perfect place to cultivate self-love. But how?
1)Recognize who’s calling the shots!!! Over the years, my inner asshole as told mean, mean things. “You’re too old to wear this” , “ You look too fat, too skinny etc. etc.”. It’s either am too much of something, or not enough of something. What bullshit. I’ve reframe this in: “ How does this outfit makes me FEEL?” Fucking amazing? K, wear that!
2)Recognize your inner asshole (thanks @jenpastiloff for the term!) is not for the faint of heart. This practice is about getting real and authentic about where and who you are right meow! Having a spiritual closet is not about improving who you are, it’s about accepting all of who you are. Whoa!
3)Which leads me to my last point: to forgive yours inner asshole for the years of abusive self- talk. I forgive you, bitch. I know better now. I am allowed to feel incredible in what I wear. I’m allowed to feel like me.
Yours in calling all the shots, always.